I think I really like it best when you can kid the pants off a girl when the opportunity arises, but it’s a funny thing. The girls I like best are the ones I never feel much like kidding. Sometimes I think they’d like it if you kidded them- in fact, I know they would- but it’s hard to get started, once you’ve known them a pretty long time and never kidded them.
― The Catcher in the Rye- J.D. Salinger (page 78)